“Good for you for stepping up,” is something single moms hear a lot. As if.
As if there was an alternative to raising our children alone. As if we had a choice. As if we would have ever considered not doing it. As if our children aren’t the most important pieces of our hearts and our lives.
We adore our children with a boundless love. Raising them is not just our priority, it is our privilege. Our children are the brightest spots of our lives. A light that shines in every moment of every day, bringing us purpose and pride.
Single women, solo moms. While her circumstances may be different, the challenges she faces are the same. She is tired but she is never weary. But still, if you know a solo mom, buy her some flowers today. Maybe stop by with a hot cup of coffee. Make sure she gets a card on Mother’s Day and that her kids can give her a gift on her birthday. Make a choice to step up for her.